Patricia Ann Oakley, 85 of Huntley, died peacefully, March 19, 2018.
Visitation will be on Friday, March 23, 2018 from 4-7pm with a service at 7pm all at DeFiore Jorgensen Funeral Home, 10763 Dundee Road, Huntley. In lieu of flowers memorials may be directed to St. Jude’s Children Hospital or Journeycare Hospice.
Patricia was born April 8, 1932 in Winchester, Kentucky the daughter of Richard and Mary King. On March 17, 1951 she married Robert Lewis Oakley. Pat earned her Bachelor Degree from Northeastern University and later her Master’s Degree from Northern Illinois University. Pat taught mathematics at Fremd High School in District 211 from 1971 until her retirement in 1998. Pat enjoyed playing tennis, golf, traveling and was an avid reader. She was an active member of the Sun City/Del Webb Community, she was a member of the Strutter’s and served on the Sun City Board for 5 years. She was a friend to all and was well loved. Pat was a devoted wife, mother and grandma. Her greatest joy was her children and grandchildren. She will be missed by all who knew her.
She is survived by her children, Robert (Debra) Oakley, Cheryl (Ray) Mobile and Mark Oakley. By her grandchildren, Amy, R.A., Sammi, Maddy, Taryn and Kristen and by her great grandchildren, Trey, Cooper, Finn, Phoebe, Harper and Charlotte. She is also survived by her brother, Richard (Jan) King and by her beloved pug, Wrinkles. She was preceded in death by her parents, her husband, Robert and by her sister, Barbara King.
The family would like to extend a special thank you all of her friends who loved and cared for her so dearly.
For further information please call the funeral home at 847-515-8772 or on-line condolences may be directed to www.defiorejorgensen.com
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Life is a blessing when you have had Pat Oakley as a friend. I will cherish our times together forever and ever. Who could ask for anything more? Not me. Love you to the moon and back, my dear Pat.
Pat touched the lives of so many students during her career at William Fremd High School. Yes, her expertise was mathematics, but she cared about each student as a person. She was respected by staff and kind to all. God's blessings to her entire family.
My condolences to the Oakley family on the loss of their mom/grandma. I knew her as a good friend, dedicated & caring teacher, and all-round good person. May you as her family find comfort in all the good memories you have.
A life so well lived! An intelligent woman, joyful spirit and dear friend.
I will always remember Pat’s joyful and positive attitude. She was a caring teacher and a mentor to many. My prayers are with her family at this sad time. Many blessings as your sorrow gives way to happy memories.
Pat was a wonderful teacher and a valued colleague. I had the pleasure to work with her on several projects over the years. My most vivid memory is of the dedication and energy which she displayed in helping us achieve recognition for William Fremd High School as a Blue Ribbon School of Excellence. The daily enthusiasm and expertise that she displayed in the classroom made her a beloved teacher to many, many students.
Sorry for your loss
My deepest condolences to Pat’s family. When I started teaching at FHS in 1982, Pat was a teacher that I looked up to and respected. She was so well-liked and admired by all.
Dear Oakley Family.... Your Mom was an immeasurable treasure. We both feel blessed that she was in our lives. A great friend for so many years. She & your Dad always were so wonderful to us, especially when we were young newlyweds. Joe always felt that that not only was she an esteemed colleague, but she also was a mother figure to the new teachers in the department. We are so sorry that we will be missing the service as we are out of town until the end of next week. Please know that you are in our thoughts & prayers. What wonderful memories of her will help sustain the sadness you are feeling. Blessings to you all.
We are sorry to hear about Pat and send prayers for your family members peace and love.
I met Pat at Fair Oaks rehab in December and we spent many meals talking about our families. She was truly a gracious and lovely woman. My sympathies to her family.
We were very lucky to claim Pat as a friend and colleague. Extremely capable, involved, caring, and supportive. We will all miss her and the world is a little better for having Pat share her passion and abilities with us.
I have known Pat for the past 40 years and she has always been the kindest, sweetest person and neighbor that I've ever known. She taught my kids at Fremd and they, too, loved her. She will long be remembered for the joy in just knowing her.
Had heard about Pat's illness, but just never got over to say "how sad and thanks for your service to our community and for being a good neighborhood 2 friend". Sorry I missed the memorial (we always have regrets). She was a special lady who faithfully walked her dog around our neighborhood (Fox Run Crt).
We met Patti and Bob on a cruise many years ago. From that moment, we became good friends. Traveling together and get togethers when home. Patti was a true and wonderful friend. We cherish our times together and she will be greatly missed, but will remain in our hearts forever. Our love and prayers to Cheryl, Ray and the rest of the family. She was and will always be a true blessing. The world is a better place because of her.